As I was messaging 20 somethings friend and my dad was throwing a fit about our room, after we already messed around with it in the lobby. I don’t know if I was asked what was bothering me directly or if I just had to put words tout in the message.
When my dad gets irritated and disappointed it’s a real bad trigger for me. This happens often. I never considered why till today. It brings me back to childhood where I could never do anything right and I was such a disappointment. I think I’m just going to try to accept it as part of his personality and even put a positive spin on it, that he has ridiculously high standards for getting what he wants. So it’s not personal, more global.