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DBT: Opposite Action

9 Jun

Changing emotions by acting opposite to the current emotion.  One of my favorite DBT skills under the Emotion Regulation Module and this weeks homework.  I mostly use opposite action with fear (anxiety) and sadness/depression.  Maybe I’ll work on unjustified guilt this week….

 

Fear

  • Do what you are afraid of doing… over and over and over.
  • Approach events. places, tasks, activities, or people you are afraid of.
  • Do things to give yourself a sense of control and mastery.
  • When overwhelmed, make a list of small tasks or steps you can do.  Do the first thing on the list.

Guilt or Shame

(when it is justified and fits your wise mind values)

  • Repair the transgression.
  • Say you’re sorry.  Apologize
  • Make things better.  Do something nice for the person you offended (or for someone else if that is not possible)
  • Commit to avoiding the mistake in the future.
  • Accept the consequences gracefully, then let it go.

Guilt or Shame

(when it is not justified and the emotion doesn’t fit with your wise mind)  Some people get confused by this one an example would be if saying no makes you feel guilty or asking for your needs to be met.  Those are not justified guilt or shame feelings.

  • Do what makes you feel guilty or ashamed… over and over and over.
  • Approach, don’t avoid.

Sadness or Depression

  • Get active.  Approach, don’t avoid.
  • Do things that make you feel competent and self confident.

Anger

  • Gently avoid the person with who you are angry, rather than attacking.
  • Avoid thinking about him or her rather than ruminating.
  • Do something nice rather than mean or attacking.

DBT: Positive Planet Journal

9 Jun

So this weeks DBT homework was to work on a positive planner journal. You are suppose to make a statement and then list evidence to back it up. The statement of course is meant to be positive. Here’s mine.  Would love to hear anything you think I should add.

Evidence that: I’m important

  1. Certain people would miss me if I was gone.
  2. Gibby would be home alone a lot, without me.
  3. Tobias counts on me for McDoubles
  4. My sister says I’ve shaped her life in a way she can’t explain.
  5. My case manager says she’s always glad to see me on the schedule
  6. 20 somethings friend says he can share fun experience and human feelings with me.
  7. I make other people feel better.
  8. By making people cards
  9. By listening and not judging.
  10. By cheering them up and giving good advice.
  11. I help my family be on time.
  12. I share knowledge and insight, that people wouldn’t have without me.
  13. I promote acceptance (Mental health and LGBT)
  14. Over 800 people read my blog.