Feeling insecure

4 Jun

I’m feeling really insecure right now.  Like people don’t like me and they just humor me by pretending to be nice.  Paranoia that they talk about me and laugh about me behind my back.  How do I know if people really like me?  It’s hard because I’m not too fond of myself and I’m always analyzing everything I say and do to see where I messed up.  I know people say not to care whether people like you or not, but everyone knows we still do.  I’m just getting vibes.

3 Responses to “Feeling insecure”

  1. cazzroo June 5, 2015 at 11:01 AM #

    sending so much love to you…. i had a moment of this feeling , that i wasn’t accepted by my brother… after a conversation.. and then it came to me… and I happy? well, actually i can be, because i like me. If he does;t like me, well i can’t change for him, then my parents, then those guys at the coffee shop… because if I AM HAPPY WITH ME THEN I AM HAPPY! we are only responsible for our own happiness. we counldn;t possibly make everyone happy all of the time. Believe me i have wasted (ok, well not wasted, but spent) a lot of time trying… but only We can make US happy, and leave the others to it. When someone is happy, they will LOVE you – because thats what happens! when we are all happy in ourselves, we see no fault in others, because have love to share! … so try this …look in the mirror and tell yourself that you love yourslef, that you’re ok that you are cool whatever positive comes to mind. If you can’t do it – then practise until you can… and then allow no-one to burst your bubble! 🙂 love yourself Marci, I wish for you to 🙂 love love love – have some of my spare 🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤

  2. manyofus1980 June 12, 2015 at 8:44 PM #

    I think we all care if people like us. Its a normal part of being human. I like you. Your very honest in your writing. That says a lot about you. X

    • mm172001 June 13, 2015 at 2:35 PM #

      Yeah I guess some people like to pretend they don’t

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