Dating anxiety

18 Dec

So I have a “date” on Sunday from the online dating site.  I’m not sure what she is looking for because I have multiple options under here for as she does.  One of the things being “casual sex” I’m trying to get more experienced but I have so much anxiety and I know I just need to do it.  We were texting each other a little bit about where we are going to meet up and she typed “hangout” like that with the quotation marks.  Another anxiety is that she is from about an hour away so we defiently aren’t going to her place and I live with my parents.  I haven’t done any of this before and it’s real awkward.  I don’t know what to do but I guess I’ll just go with whatever.  I’m probably going to be in a heightened state of anxiety till after Sunday.

9 Responses to “Dating anxiety”

  1. blahpolar December 18, 2014 at 11:25 PM #

    Just go with the flow and try not to let it matter too much. You’re meeting someone who may or may not be a nice person etc and don’t think further. If it happens, it happens. If not, nothing lost.

  2. bluehero45 December 19, 2014 at 2:23 AM #

    This is a step I need to take as well, I hope all goes well.

    • mm172001 December 19, 2014 at 7:52 AM #

      Thanks! I’ll keep everyone updated.

  3. manyofus1980 December 19, 2014 at 9:48 PM #

    Good luck Marcie! I hope it works out well for you. Do update us when its over. XX

  4. doomcor December 19, 2014 at 9:50 PM #

    Good luck! Many of us GLBTQ folks struggle with our mental health. Hopefully she will be awesome and understanding. If not, don’t be discouraged – there are plenty of other understanding queers like us out there!

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