30MIAC Day 15: Round Up/Results

28 Jan

For the Zero to Hero Challenge day 23 is about publishing a round up. I will be publishing a round up of people who have participated in my 30 Days of Mental Illness Awareness Challenge.  Feel free to join the challenge at any time or check out the bloggers below who have participated in prompts.

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So here are the round up people who participated in responding to my fifteenth prompt on the 30 Days of Mental Illness Awareness Challenge. If you participated and I haven’t added your post here, please pingback to the main challenge page with prompts or tag your post 30MIAC.

Day 15: How has your life been effected by your illness(es)? (Some ideas are: relationships, career, school)

From Pieces of Me, Gypsy says: “I could sit here and imagine that if my life werent affected by mental illness, that I may have went to college, or maybe Id have some big career, shit maybe Id be singing in a band like Ive always dreamed of.  I dont see the point in that, other than to make me hate myself.”  Which is a very good point, sometimes when the effects have been nagative it doesn’t help to think what could have been.

From All That I Am, All That I Ever Was, Addy breaks the prompt down into three diagnoses: Bipolar Disorder, PTSD, and Social Anxiety.  He mentions Bipolar being the “big illness” but probably having the least impact on his life.  He talks about PTSD and the traumatic experiences feed into his anxiety making it even worse.  He then talks about the Social Anxiety which has been catastrophic in his life impacting everything from commenting on blogs to forming social relationships.

From Remember to Breathe which talks about how her OCD has effected every area of her life and now realizing that and building it back up.

And my answers which break into life events that are effected: relationships with peers/social life, relationships with family, relationships with co-workers, career/job, school and day to day life.  I try to include some positives and negatives, example “When I am depressed I don’t want to be around anyone and frankly most people probably wouldn’t want to be around me.  I have social anxiety plus fears of rejection/abandonment that make it real hard to make new friendships and socialize.  I’m also super shy and tend to be embarrassed easily which isn’t good for social situations.  However, the friends that I do have are the greatest people in the world.  They understand that sometimes I can’t be at events and they don’t let me fall off the face of the planet (though I’d like to some times.)  They are sympathetic and some are not uncomfortable talking about how life really is for me.”

From Second Chances who talks about how her life has been influenced now that she is aware of her anxiety and depression, for example knowing not to trust that racing heart and to try and calm herself.  Also about developing stubborness and resilience to fight the mental illness.

From Fashion Anxious who talks about how her anxiety started really effecting her when she started looking for work and working, and gives examples such as telling trainers  ‘an upset stomach’, in order to go home early because of anxiety.

From Beyond Normal “A great teacher once said that bipolar is like diabetes. It affects everything. So if you are an expert on diabetes, then you would understand the human anatomy. When you understand bipolar, then you would understand basically everything about the human mind. The point I’m trying to get across is this: Having bipolar or maybe even any other mental illness, affects every single thing in your life. It affects your physical appearance, perception, relationships, education, memory, and other people too. ”  She goes on to explain each category like impulsively cutting her hair influencing her appearance and nearly not graduating high school which would fall under education.

Also mylovelyborderlinepersonalitydisorder which talks about negative impacts on jobs, relationships, and friends.  About jumping from one thing to another.  Regrets about not being married or having many social friendships.

From That’s Crazy who talks about living with Depression and Anxiety for most of her life so they often have a front seat, although with time their influence has been smaller.

From Battling The Demons Within which talks about how right now her illness is her life, not being dependable enough to work or go to school because of inpatient stays but states at the end that “Eventually, once I get more stable, I will consider looking for a relationship, but now just isn’t the time for that, in my opinion.”

From Confessions of a Crafty Sinner who talks about her relationships being effected and her mindset whether through accepting things she normally wouldn’t or doubting and thinking the worse.

**Thanks to all who participated and continue to spread the word**

Also from Surviving by Living who has conversion disorder and depression and answered prompts 15-18 in one comprehensive post.

Also A Life of Madness who answered prompts 10-21 in a comprehensive post, she includes photos and has bipolar disorder.

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